Aaran Solh
Love and Life Coach & Founder of Alchemy: Forging Connection

Coaching: Discover a coaching and healingjourney that helps you move beyond fear and conditioning, open to love in all its forms, and create relationships—with yourself, others, and the divine—that are rooted in authenticity and joy.
~ For Individuals: Release unconscious expectations and fears, cultivate self-love and boundaries, and align your life and work with love as your guiding force.
~ For Couples: Transform conflict into connection, practice loving requests for change, and build a relationship founded on both compatibility and unconditional love (the 70/30 principle).

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Love and Life Coaching and Healing for Individuals

Awaken to Authentic Love, Dissolve Fears, and Be a Warrior for Truth

Love begins within.

In individual Coaching programs, we uncover the fears, expectations, and unconscious visions of “how love and life should be” that block your openness today.

Whether they’re idealized fantasies or defenses shaped by past hurt.

You’ll practice self-love with boundaries: honoring your needs, making clear requests for change (of yourself and others), and replacing shame-based self-talk with compassionate accountability.

We’ll explore both sides of love:

Conditional love (compatibility): values, boundaries, communication, and life fit.

Unconditional love: presence, compassion, and the freedom to grow.

You’ll learn to stop using inner punishment—guilt, harsh self-criticism, or passive aggression—to force change. Instead, we build change through positive reinforcement, skillful practice, and nervous-system safety. This approach doesn’t just heal your capacity to love; it also aligns your work and service with your deeper purpose so relationships feel joyful and true.

Love Coaching for Couples

Turn Conflict into Intimacy and Build Compatibility and Unconditional Love

Every couple longs for a love that feels safe and alive.

Together, we create a space where both partners can examine fear of intimacy, exposure, or betrayal—and the unconscious expectations that keep love at arm’s length.

Together, you’ll learn loving boundaries and how to make clear, respectful requests for change without resorting to pressure, threats, or passive aggression.

We strengthen:

Compatibility (conditional love): daily habits, communication, repair, and shared agreements.

Unconditional love: empathy, presence, and care that endures differences.

Instead of punishment and criticism—which shut people down—we use positive reinforcement, appreciation, shared ritual, and consistent practice to help new behaviors take root. As blame gives way to compassionate accountability, the relationship becomes a channel for growth, purpose, and shared service in the world.

A Bit About Me

Aaran has been devoted his life to answering the question, 'What is Love?' and studying the human spirit and mind. He has explored ancient cultures and traditions alongside modern academic approaches. A prolific author and video creator, Aaran has facilitated life-transforming workshops and classes on spirituality and personal growth.

Aaran is a parent (his child calls him the "best papa in the whole world") and has gained extensive first-hand experience in intimacy, love, and relationships in the context of spiritual growth.

Aaran is a relationship counselor, regression therapist, ordained priest in a lesser-known Western Mystery School, Deeksha Blessing giver, Reiki Master, detoxification coach, and holds an undergraduate degree with an emphasis in psychology and chemical dependency counseling. Most importantly, he has brought real-life transformation and positivity to thousands of people through his books, classes, and workshops.

I love this quote from Abraham Hicks:

“I want everyone to feel SO good that they never feel like picking up guns and killing each other”

I really want to lift up the human species from being 'the worst thing that has ever happened to this planet' (that’s a quote from my daughter). If you want to see a world full of happy people, you have to learn how to have healthy connections, which bring the greatest sense of meaning to our lives; alongside knowing our soul's purpose.

What Aaran's Client's Have To Say:

"Aaran’s simple authenticity, gentle guidance, and acceptance have been incredibly inspiring and helpful to me. Aaran empowers you from within. His enthusiasm and encouragement are contagious! In working with him, I have moved from a feeling of being stuck to being free – and even more than that, to feeling joyful in just being alive!"

- Laura Redfern, Certified Financial Planner

"Through practicing Aaran’s guided meditation I was able to find the inspiration to complete a song I had been attempting to write. I was able to get in touch with a Universal Truth and create a song that has moved others. There was no labor involved. The song was simply delivered. Thank you Aaran."

- Lily Ralfs, Songwriter

"Aaran has dedicated his life to uplift humanity through the remembrance of returning one’s attention to the root of their being. His work addresses liberation from suffering, intentional living, and purification of body, mind, and spirit."

- Jean-Pierre Verdijo, Visual Artist

"I really appreciate Aaran’s graciousness and insights. He has taken me from being a skeptic to being a believer and has brought joy and inner knowing into my life. I have experienced deep healing by feeling a greater closeness to the ONE and by understanding my unconscious motivations. "

- Jonathan Houghton. Musician, Engineer, Philanthropist

"Aaran’s qualities of gentleness, understanding, and insight have helped me bring more awareness, patience, understanding and gratitude into my life. My relationship with myself has vastly improved and my relationships with others have become more engaging."

- Erik Sterns. Rei-Ki Master, Software Engineer

"Thanks to Aaran’s wisdom, insight and wide knowledge I’ve discovered how to bring my learning into my body in a way that creates real transformation. Before working with Aaran I felt stuck, and now I feel empowered to move forward again with a sense of hope."

- Helen Jordan, Meditation Teacher, Artist

Free Video Courses

The Compatibility Blueprint

The five principles of compatibility help you clarifiy values, communication, lifestyle, intimacy, and growth—so you can date wisely, talk openly, and build the kind of love that lasts.

Available Freeon the Alchemy App

The Path to Perfect Intimacy: 6 Timeless Lessons on Love

This Course is designed to help you break free from unhealthy relationship patterns, heal emotional wounds, and build authentic, fulfilling connections through deep self-reflection, practical tools, and timeless wisdom.

Available Freeon the Alchemy App

Reclaiming the Lost Pieces of Yourself: Theory and Practice

This course contains an introduction and three transformative guided visualizations designed to help you reclaim lost parts of yourself: Body awareness, receptivity, and a profound regression practice.

Available Freeon the Alchemy App

Conscious Communication

Build Trust, Intimacy, and Clarity in Every Relationship. Learn practical communication skills that transform conflict into connection and help you create emotionally safe, thriving relationships.

Available Freeon the Alchemy App

Emotional Intelligence

Practical Emotional Tools that Return you to Calm, Clarity, and Connection. A step-by-step course with guided visualizations and daily practices that help you understand emotions, reset your nervous system, and respond from steadiness instead of reactivity.

Available Freeon the Alchemy App

21-Day Challenges

21 Days of Healing for the Avoidantly Attached

A 21-day program to help you feel safe expressing needs, emotions, and vulnerability in relationships. Through guided reflections, body-based awareness, and trust-building exercises, you’ll learn how to balance independence with connection.